I am probably one of the rarest females on earth. I don't say this because I have some weird physical deformity, or because I make more money than that average woman. No I say this because I really and truly don't care for oral sex...well that's not true, I am just not particularly fond of recieving it. Lets be honest here...it doens't feel that great, and really after about 2 or 3 minutes of that I get very bored. Now most women will say that my feelings toward that particular form of foreplay are simply because it has never been done right. Well let me assure you that is not the case. It has been done right, by a couple of different guys...and one chick but that is another story entirely, and I was still bored. However, this particular aversion to oral does not extend the other way. I absolutely love felacio. Its one of my favorite things to do.
So now my question to all of you girls is why? Why do you enjoy that, and why do you force guys to do it when they clearly aren't interested in it at all. Is it the feeling of being catered to? Or is the the notion that they are totally focused on you and getting nothing for themselves in return? That also brings up another issue that I have often questioned. Girls, why do you insist that your man give you oral, but then refuse to do the same for him? You may not like it, but one good turn deserves another in my book.
I bring this up because I finally had to have that conversation with the boyfriend last night. He, for reasons unbeknownst to me, really enjoys giving girls oral. So far I have been a good sport and let him when he asks for it. However, last night I just couldn't give it the level of attention that he obviously was, and that didn't seem fair so I stopped him. Immediately he was offended and hurt (who knew). I had to spend a good 20 minutes reassuring him that it wasn't that I wasn't attracted to him, and that of course I love the sex...I just really get bored with oral...well at least oral being done to me. He finally seemed to get the message and I am hoping we wont have to deal with the issue again, but it makes me curious if more guys feel that way. Or if more girls feel the way I do...
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so you hate recieving but love giving? You think it is more of a control issue than, becoming bored without it all?
Its not so much that I hate getting eatin out, its just not something I particularly enjoy. I would rather be doing something else. I love blow jobs though. Partially its an element of control, partially its being able to caress a part of someone's body so intimately. Even when I have some element of control over a guy when he is down on me I am only marginally interested. I would much rather be pleasing the guy then have him work so hard for something I dont really enjoy.
how would you rate your oral skills on a scale of 1 to 10?
What is your favorite thing about going down on a guy?
I am going to give myself between an 8.5 and a 9.5 depending on the amount of time I have to enjoy myself.
Favorite thing is probaly the ability to do all the things you can't do with just sex. I get to taste and tease and play with all of that flesh that doesn't always get attention during sex. And I get to watch the guys face while I do it, learn what he likes and what makes him moan. And there is always that tiny element of control lurking in the background. He is mine to do with as I like.
Forgive me if I am offbase but do get pretty kinky when you give head? Do you swallow, let him finish on you? etc.
How kinky I get depends on how kinky the guy will let me get. I like licking his ass, I always swallow if allowed, cumming on me is always an option (just not in my eyes lol it stings).
nice that is hot. Do you have a favorite time when you gave a guy a blow job? you can email me if you don't want to post it
caplyst@gmail.com
I emailed it over.
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